a) Everybody stereotypes no
matter how much you deny it to yourself. As a secondary teacher myself, I am
completely guilty of doing this during my first week of student teaching.
Although I had stereotyped my students all into formal groups in my mind, I
never let the students know that or even see glimpses of it. What would happen
normally is I would expect this student I had stereotyped to react to a certain
situation in a predictable way. I learned quickly that you cannot predict
anything about teenagers! I would agree with this teacher that the process of
getting new students seems completely ridiculous at times. The stress that’s
put on the student to adapt quickly to classroom changes and making friends, on
top of catching up to the material being taught in class, can be overwhelming.
And yes, the teacher already has an opinion on how this student may or may not
act in their class. It’s the sad reality. There is a shining hope though, that
although this new student is in an unfamiliar place with unfamiliar people, you
as a teacher can help this kid get off on the right foot and build a trusting
relationship. This can build their confidence in getting to know other students
and helps them make gains in the classroom.
b) The best way to treat
students fairly would simply be to have an open mind. We’re all taught
different lessons in our lives, and most times we’ve been groomed to think and
act a different way than our students. There’s nothing wrong with having
opinions about people or topics, but to assert these “restrictions” on our
students is inappropriate. I want my students to think differently than I do,
because I certainly don’t want a classroom of robots. One example I can give
you is a student of mine who is transgender. My first impression was that this
student was this way because they wanted attention, but I gave the student a
chance. This student is probably one of the most polite and well-mannered
students in my classroom. I’ve never had any issues with them, and from what
they tell me, they are a straight A student. I’ve built a trusting
relationship, one that this student doesn’t have with all of their teachers
because of their own narrowness.
